tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41738028816591482072024-03-13T05:37:56.947-05:00My Journey ContinuesHappiness is a journey not a destination.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-25231660066723875622010-07-15T09:02:00.003-05:002010-07-15T09:05:34.880-05:00OverwhelmedI'm feeling totally overwhelmed by life this morning. I feel listless and with no drive whatsoever to do anything. I'm on the verge of tears constantly. I feel like nobody understands or really much cares. If I dared to try to talk to anybody, provided I could even find somebody who would listen, really listen and hear what I was saying, they would just have some simple solution they would fully believe would be the magic bandaid. There is no simple solution save one and I'm not ready for that yet. God life sucks right now and I just don't know how much more I can take.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-88048622447940605592010-07-14T14:13:00.002-05:002010-07-14T14:28:11.516-05:00Pen Pals?I thought maybe I'd try to find some new pen pals. There is a lot to be said for the rush when you find somebody you click with and I do enjoy writing. A lot of searching on the web has shown me a few things.<br /><br />First that the sites I used to use years ago, on AOL and Yahoo are no more. Or if they are there I sure can't find them.<br /><br />The next thing I found is that there didn't seem to be a single good truly free site out there. Most of them were free only if you were willing to accept almost uselessly limits on the services offered. I am more than a bit hesitant to pay for a site since there is no guarantee it's even a good site, that it could produce results.<br /><br />Another thing I learned is that the process of trying to find a place to find pen pals was stressful and reminded me how stressfull the finding could be. So...maybe I don't want to do this.<br /><br />For a while I'd dropped totally out of the online scene. I was not checking my email more than a couple of times a month and not looking at Facebook at all. I changed that. My email inbox is empty now and has been staying empty. Yes, I get emails from a few (very few) people. The only people (two) who I want to talk to have, understandably, seemed to move on and have time to write very infrequently, briefly and relatively shallowly. In other words I blew my window of opportunity and have effectively lost all the friends I cared about.<br /><br />My son wrote on Facebook the other day something about why is it that once you decide to do something it's too late to take advantage of the opportunity. That's how I feel and I know I have no one to blame but myself. Heck, for the most part, nobody even reads blogs any longer that I can tell. At least I can write here and not worry if it's something I should not have written.<br /><br />I am on the brink of dropping back out of the online scene. It's changed too much from when I started in '97. I just can't compete any more. That avenue of finding new friends for myself appears to be gone and with it the only real chance I ever had since I'll never manage to do it in real life.<br /><br />At 52 i'm not gonna change who I am or how I feel about some things. I'll never become less shy than I am and so I just have to accept that I'll spend the rest of my life relatively friendless. Why then, should I bother to eat right, go to the doctor and take pills to help lower blood pressure and cholesterol? That would all serve to increase the time I have to spend on an Earth that really doesn't give a flying fuck if I'm here or not. Ok so life is not so bad that I'm gonna kill myself (I wouldn't have the courage anyway) but on the other hand I feel no desire whatsoever to increase my time here on Earth, no reason to. I'm contributing nothing that I can see. Even my wife is learning to live just fine without me down in Orlando.<br /><br />God, if you're listening I'm ready for whatever you've got in mind next, nothing left for me there that I see.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-28909841550047748482010-07-10T10:31:00.002-05:002010-07-10T10:42:19.135-05:00Good Weekend goingI thought I'd write and <strong><em>not</em></strong> whine for once. Doesn't really matter since as near as I can tell Facebook has pretty much killed off blog readership and my not writing for ages there didn't help of course. I know there are exceptions as evidenced by the one comment I got a while back and I thank you for that :)<br /><br />Anyway Connie is up for the weekend and we're having a good time. We haven't done anything astounding but none the less it's been nice. Just having somebody to touch and hug is nice. She was even in the mood for a bit more than just that yesterday, yahoo! That is not the only reason i'm in a better mood but it sure helps. I guess 52 is not too old to still want sex. Kinda too bad since my options are real limited now.<br /><br />We went to the casino and both played poker last night. She did better than I did. I am still on my streak of really nasty suckouts. Several people at the table even commented they'd never seen anyone get sucked out on that badly that much. It happens, it's not fun but all you can do is play through it.<br /><br />My biggest hand of the night was when, out of frustration, I said I was staying until I went broke or got even and then when I looked at my cards announced a raise. Everybody (and I don't blame them) thought I was on tilt so just about everybody called the raise where normally the way I play everbody folds. I hit two pair on the flop (AK), there were no serious straight or flush draws out and I filled up with another king on the river. I got plenty of action since one guy had pocket queens and so many low limit players just cannot lay down a big pair even when they've been checkraised (ok I did that out of frustration and a sense of revenge since I usually continuation bet after a raise and most times if I check it checks behind me.) Anyway, it was fun. I was frustrated yes but I was nowhere near being on tilt. Hard to get too upset in a 4/8 game really even a really horrible night barely dings my bankroll for more than a couple percent loss. I really wish I could find higher limits but that ain't gonna happen anytime soon around Tunica.<br /><br />Anyway, enough rambling. The weekend is going well and I'm going back to my weekend. Hope ya'll are having a great one too!Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-40159244743355251802010-07-08T12:33:00.002-05:002010-07-08T12:36:01.088-05:00Brief RespiteWell maybe for the next few days life will not suck quite so much. I doubt my luck will be any better but Connie will be here. At least until she leaves on Sunday I'll have somebody to hold me a bit and give me a hug or two. All the problems will still be there but they're a bit more bearable with a hug.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-62673407289578814242010-07-07T21:43:00.000-05:002010-07-07T21:44:35.562-05:00Life. Sucks.It totally does. Period. 'nuff said.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-33417175656521121772010-07-07T10:28:00.002-05:002010-07-07T11:00:16.911-05:00July...already?The year is flying by. That would be a good thing right now except that Connie's job situation is really no more settled than it was. She's sounding much more positive about it but I suspect that is because she is down in Orlando and I'm up here in Mississippi and we don't feed on each others fears, worries and depressions.<br /><br />I'm wondering...is it possible to be happy and depressed at the same time? Most of the time lately I'm not really unhappy. I'm playing a lot of poker and almost all of it now at Sam's Town in Tunica. Connie told me after listening to me talk about it that it sounds almost like Cheers. You know, the bar from the TV show of the same name. Everybody doesn't know my name but enough do to give me a bit of a sense of belonging.<br /><br />Anyway, back to being happy and depressed. Most times I'm happy when I'm playing poker and around a few people who, while not really friends, are maybe more than just acquaintances. Also I just plain like to play poker. It's one of the few things in my life I've felt I'm good at, at least in the limited way I play. I realize I'm a small minnow in a big pond but it's a pond made of smaller ponds and in my own pond I'm too big to eat so that's good. LOL sorry for the fish analogy but it's central to poker. Bad players, or players easily beat are called fish and the saying is that if you look around and can't spot the fish then YOU are the fish. Thankfully in the games I play I never really have to worry about sharks while I do get to, in as nice and pleasant a way as possible, get to devour my share of fish. They say seafood is good for you right? :)<br /><br />When I"m not playing poker though I'm seldom motivated to DO anything. Doing any housework or yard work or even bothering to check email just seems like way too much work. Getting out of BED sometimes seems pointless. That is the part that sounds to me like depression. Yet come time to head to the casino to play poker, I'm generally up and moving and happy about it.<br /><br />Part of it is also that it's pretty lonely here. I've never been one to make friends very easily. My best luck has always been online and I've not made a new online friend for several years and have let the ones I did have slip away by and large through inattention on my part mostly. Of course the few that were persistant and kept writing to me anyway are still around and I'm starting to write back more. Maybe it's NOT all my fault. Whatever the reason it's pretty lonely up here with Connie gone.<br /><br />We do talk on the phone a lot though and really talking was most of what we did anyway. Other than just BEING here together. Cuddling of course sometimes...beyond that....doesn't really matter if she is here or there but who wants to hear about that? I suspect no one...probably not even me. It's depressing to think that phase of my life seems to be over at 52.<br /><br />So all that is going on in my life, for the most part, is poker lately and this is not a poker blog. I have one of those even though I've not written in it in years and don't plan to start now. Im not about to tell ANYONE other than a VERY close friend possibly, now to survive playing poker the way I do. The pool of players is too small, one or two more of me around here and I'd never make any money and actually would begin to lose to the rake the casino takes. With the state of poker as it is thanks to the economy (I hope that's the reason) just beating the rake is an accomplishment in the limit games you can find these days.<br /><br />Since this is NOT a poker blog and I really don't have anything but maybe lack of sex to write about anyway other than that I doubt I'll be writing here much. I'm sure from time to time I'll chime in. Lord knows I CAN write about anything...if I feel like it which I haven't. There's a whole world out there with endless things to write about and probably I'd feel better if I just rambled here every day. I know that....but I probably won't do it.<br /><br />Take care ya'll....Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-47397281335749635212010-05-30T11:23:00.002-05:002010-05-30T11:30:05.221-05:00Another year olderWell I survived another birthday. Despite what my outdated info on this blog says i'm now 52. I still don't feel old really, most of the time. When life hits me which it is doing more lately as you can tell from the previous post then I feel old but I would if I was 20 also.<br /><br />I had to spend the day alone because Connie has to be in Orlando for several months for work. We're just so glad that they found even temp assignment for her for a few months that neither of us minds. Besides I think the stress of the whole mess was starting to have us getting on each other's nerves.<br /><br />I did go to play poker and the other players went along with my plan that I get to win on my birthday so that was nice. LOL maybe I'll tell 'em it's my birthday all the time. Anyway, yes, I'm still playing poker when I can find a decent game and still doing well. I think my play has gotten better.<br /><br />My overall feeling lately is that life still sucks but it does have good parts, they're just hard to find. I think I'll go back to Azeroth for a while...it's sort of like Cheers...a place where everybody knows your name and life doesn't suck too bad.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-30206041252548978962010-05-06T09:25:00.003-05:002010-05-06T09:36:42.387-05:00Thirteen Months LaterActually I thought it had been longer since I posted here than the thirteen months, almost to the day, that it has been. A lot has gone on.<br /><br />I took a foray into Facebook and found I don't like it and that it doesn't suit my needs.<br /><br />I also got hooked on World of Warcraft. I can thank my son for that, he's the one who finally talked me into trying it. I absolutely love it. It's been a bit of a lifesaver recently too. It's one of those things though that I suspect you either understand or you don't and if you don't you're sure i'm nuts. Of course that has never bothered me at all....I know I'm nuts.<br /><br />I need an outlet right now and facebook was too public. This has the disadvantage of being something that Connie reads only I doubt she looks for it and I cut off having it mailed out to anyone. If anyone reads it they will have had to look for it. That is perfect.<br /><br />A bit ago Connie's second project in six months got cut off with no notice by Mr. Obama who is swiftly gutting the defense department. Still think he's not dangerous? Think again. Anyway her company does not seem to really be helping her with re-deployment, they say the words but there are no discernable actions behind them.<br /><br />The thing I'm upset about is that I see our retirement going totally down the tubes and there is almost literally nothing I can do about it. I always said I wanted to save as much as it would take to avoid being one of these old geezers working bagging groceries. I was under the impression we were doing that. Turns out I should have kept a closer eye on our finances as Connie had different plans than the ones I thought we had. Of course there are all sorts of things she doesn't tell me. Ok so I get upset sometimes but it's just because I care and besides I find out anyway and then get more upset so the logic there escapes me.<br /><br />Anyway I see, in the not too distant future, me bagging groceries, figurtively if not literally. That is IF I can even find a job.<br /><br />Right now this journey to find happiness is on a major detour headed nowhere fast. Life sucks right now and frankly if it ended now that would be ok with me...it's been making me think....<br /><br /><br />And now that I've vented I'll sign off for....well who knows how long...maybe forever...hope ya'll are doing better than I am, I know lots of people aren't and I'm sorry for that.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-30832461912430146802009-04-20T13:38:00.002-05:002009-04-20T13:55:12.422-05:00Beautiful MondayI just thought I'd post an update. Lots I should be doing but sitting here at the computer looking out over the back patio and the lake beyond is nice too. It's a wonderful spring day today. The sky is cloudless and the temperature is perfect. That's a huge change from yesterday which was pretty nasty. On the up side I won't have to water the garden today.<br /><br />Speaking of the garden it continues to do well. I even have a few cherries on the cherry trees I have yet to plant. I wonder if they will survive the transplant shock? I guess I'll find out. With any luck the three new trees will be in the ground this week.<br /><br />Most of this day so far has been used for exciting things like laundry. I also got a start on a new drawer I needed to build to replace a broken one in one of our houses in Orlando. I have some drawers to build for another project so this will be a learning experience that will pay off down the line. With all the things I've built over the years you'd think I'd have had to make drawers before but I haven't. It doesn't look too hard to duplicate the broken one. I guess time will tell if that is overly optimistic.<br /><br />The weekend was a pretty good one. We had a friend come visit and I think they had a nice time. I know we did. We did some shopping, ate WAY too much at the Sam's Town Seafood Buffet on Friday night, played some poker, you know, just hung out and had fun. Oh and we watched Mamma Mia, that was a fun movie. Musicals are not usualy my favorite things really but this one was just fun. I thought Meryl Streep looked great in it, and that was before I found out she's nearly 60 now!<br /><br />Poker actually went well this weekend, good enough to make me cautiously optimistic that maybe it's turning around. The number of available games seem to be picking up and that seems to be leading to more loose, beatable and thus profitable, games. My bankroll is increasing steadily and it won't be all that long at this rate that, if I can find higher stakes games, I'll be able to move up to play them. That might have to wait for a trip to Vegas though but we've been thinking of doing that this year.<br /><br />What I'd love to do is drive out to Vegas taking my time and playing in cardrooms along the way in Oklahoma and Arizona and possibly other places if I can find likely spots. It's a long drive even from here in Hernando, around 1500 miles I think. Playing my way out to Vegas over the course of a few days each way would make it easier to take than just driving the whole way as fast as I could which would mean a solid two days in the car....yuck. That plan appeals to me but it means I have to do it alone as Connie couldn't really get enough time to do all that as the whole trip would then take at least 2 weeks. What will probably happen is that I'll drive out and Connie will fly out and meet me in Vegas then fly back after 5 days or a week or so. That gives me time on both ends and allows me to say out there as long as it's profitable enough to pay for itself and I'm still having fun. I hope it comes together as it sounds like fun. I'll wait until later in the summer when it's too hot here to enjoy being outside much though. Vegas will be hot anyway and I'm used to being there in the heat anyway since it seems like that's always when I visit. Good thing the poker rooms are all nice and well airconditioned (and now all smoke free...yippee).<br /><br />Well I guess I have put off work long enough. Time to go work on a drawer.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-13529988381009904452009-04-13T15:00:00.006-05:002009-04-13T15:24:58.013-05:00Early Spring in the GardenLiving here in Northern Mississippi I can see that spring is going to be my favorite time of year. Winter is over. Not that I minded having a real winter. I actually liked it, even when it got down to twelve degrees, even when it snowed. Spring here is much more noticable than it was in Central Florida. <div><div><div> </div><div>In Florida my favorite season was fall. Of course fall didn't really come there until mid-October. Then it finally started to get a bit cool after nearly six months of murderously hot summer temperatures. I liked nothing more than a walk on a crisp fall evening after a hot day when you could feel the cool edge creeping in. It gave you hope.</div><br /><div>Spring does that here. There is so much color to spring here. In the pictures I'm going to post you'll see a bit of spring color even in the small portion of my yard that is in the pictures. You'll see one of our Dogwoods that has been blooming for a couple of weeks now as well as a couple of other plants I can't put names to. </div><br /><div>Most of my spring veggies are in and well started. I've had a couple of disappointments the main one being the strawberries that I bought from Lowes that are just doing nothing. I thought the first batch got taken out by a cold snap when I started them too soon. That can't be what is keeping the second batch down. I'll be looking for a new source for strawberry plants I suppose. I really want to grow strawberries.</div><div> </div><br /><p><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324270694392715602" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SeOb_MNM2VI/AAAAAAAAADE/xqbnTIzG9zU/s400/IMG_3620.JPG" border="0" />Here is a view from the back patio looking out at the area where most of the gardening is happening. I've got some blueberries and fruit trees in another area on the other side of the house but this is where the veggies will be growing.</p><p>Those are tomato plants on the wall to the left of the compost bin. There are two cherry trees and a peach tree waiting to be planted, those are in pots on the left of the picture.</p><br /><p><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324271534316916658" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SeOcwFKvD7I/AAAAAAAAADM/9q8AFJvXkB8/s400/IMG_3621.JPG" border="0" /> I'm starting small with just 4 beds for veggies. Using the Square Foot Gardening method though those 4 beds give me 16 sq feet each to plant in and that gets in an amazing quantity of plants in a small space. There is one bed yet to finish, the shorter raised bed in the center. It is going to be an herb garden. The bed on the right is primarily peppers with some onions and carrots. The other two are pretty much an assortment. You can see one of the Dogwoods in the background of this picture although it's not the best picture of it.</p><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324272984091671010" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SeOeEd_-OeI/AAAAAAAAADU/4ifKqqRTK_g/s400/IMG_3622.JPG" border="0" />Here is a view of the area looking from the front of the lot toward the back.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324273347165991682" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SeOeZmjoswI/AAAAAAAAADc/_Na2c7JqzFY/s400/IMG_3623.JPG" border="0" />This is a closeup of the bed with the peppers in it. The taller boxes in the right rear corner will be carrots. They are not strictly up to speed with the Square Foot Gardening thing, they should have been 12 inches square but I already had them built for something else that I didn't end up needing them for. Might as well recycle.<br /><br /><p>That, for now, is springtime in the garden here. It's an evolving process and not only is it fun but gives me something to write about here. Now you know what I've been up to.<br /></p><br /><br /><div><br /></div><br /><br /><div></div></div></div>Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-21567249472388518822009-04-08T15:35:00.004-05:002009-04-08T15:49:04.025-05:00MemoirI've always kind of been a bit of the type to spend time reflecting on my life. I suppose many, if not most, people who have journals of any sort are. I find myself doing it more as I get older. In part it's probably because there is more to reflect <strong><em>on</em></strong>.<br /><br />I recently read an article in Readers Digest about writing memoirs. It was a great article but I have no idea what month or even what year it was from. I don't even want to get into my method, if you can call it that, for reading Reader's Digest. I'll get them all read eventually, maybe.<br /><br />Anyway that article struck a cord with me. Of course any article on writing tends to do that. At first I thought, but I do that in the form of my journals both online and my private journal on my computer. I used to do a hardback jounal written long hand but have not done that for several years. It was it's own form of relaxation that you just don't get when typing on a screen. I probably should resume it again.<br /><br />After thinking about it for a bit I realized that journals and blogs are seldom really memoir. They can have elements of it but, at least the way I do it, it's closer to an ongoing autobiography than a memoir.<br /><br />I have begun to toy with writing one or more memoirs but it's being a slow process. That's ok because what is slowing me down is the need to examine my life in more detail than I usually do and with brutal honesty. The brutal honesty part is harder than you would think. Harder than I thought anyway. I have come to realize that there are parts of my life that I can write in a memoir that I could possibly even post here. I really can't see any of it being worthy of trying to publish. There is more though that I'll be writing just for me to read, or at least to know I've written even if I never go back and read it. There's a lot that I wouldn't, or couldn't, share with many people, maybe not anybody.<br /><br />I don't know what to come of it but if you know me you know I'm usualy my happiest when I have some sort of writing project in mind. For now that will probably be what is occupying me when I'm writing. Who knows some of what I re-discover about myself may leak out into entries in this journal. It wouldn't surprise me at all if that happened.<br /><br />If you're reading this then you've probably been a part of my life in one way or another. I'd love you to write me an email sometime and tell me about some memory you have of me, something we shared together or maybe just the first thing you thought of when you read this. I think it would be interesting to see my life from the other side and I can't do that without help.<br /><br />Help me....please?Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-51896116191902143272009-04-03T17:15:00.002-05:002009-04-03T17:23:49.365-05:00Jeckyll and HydeThe weather here, moreso I think than in Florida, tends to do sort of a Jeckyll and Hyde thing. One day it will be just gorgeous as it was a couple of days ago when I wrote. Then yesterday we had strong storms but luckily missed us with the worst of what they brought to other nearby areas. Today, after a cloudy start to the morning, it was a cool, clear, perfect spring day.<br /><br />I'm not complaining mind you. Weather is as you find it and complaining about it isn't going to get you anywhere. That doesn't stop me from doing it if there are too many days without sunshine since my moods do seem to hinge on sufficent sunlight. I probably complained last year about the week here in Mississippi where every day was over 100 degrees too. I don't think I complained at all about this winter and the cold even though I came from Florida where it was considered critically cold if it got into the 50's.<br /><br />It seems that here the days are more likely to start out cloudy and get sunny where in Florida they would start out sunny then get stormy as the sun heating things up caused seabreeze fronts most summer days.<br /><br />I can't say that one place is better than another for weather, both have their advantages and disadvantages. I will say that spring in Northern Mississippi is a heck of a lot more spectacular than spring in Central Florida. Also it's nice that summer doesn't last quite as long here in Mississippi, even if it does tend to be a little hotter at it's hotest.<br /><br />All I know right now is that the weather is, once again, perfect and I'm going to enjoy that while I can.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-2755343759872652712009-04-01T16:45:00.004-05:002009-04-01T16:53:02.568-05:00WonderingI wrote recently about reconnecting with an old friend thanks to FaceBook. I'm glad that worked out as it has and wouldn't change that but over all I'm wondering if FaceBook is such a good idea for me. I've gotten several friend requests from former high school classmates and have always accepted them gladly. The thing that has me wondering now is that after I've accepted the request I write to them and by and large nothing happens. I may get a line or two back once but if I respond to that then I get nothing. In one case it appeared that somebody was going to actually WRITE and we might really reconnect that way. Well that rather abruptly seems to have ended. Of course they might be busy but more than likely I think I was just not who they wanted to talk to. I'm pretty sure I'm right about that but won't go into the details right now. I'm glad for the one friend I was able to really reconnect with and actually get back together with in person. I'm very glad for the friends who I made online in the past few years who are there now and who are making an effort to keep connected. Overall though as it applies to high school classmates it appears to be a repeat of high school. I knew OF lots of people but never really knew them because for whatever reason I never managed to really fit in. The cycle of life just repeats itself I suppose. I hoped maybe something, me or something else, had changed but that doesn't appear to be the case. And so, it appears, ends the great FaceBook experiment....too depressing.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-77880049105526558692009-04-01T16:35:00.004-05:002009-04-01T16:44:21.185-05:00Wonderful Spring Day in Northern Mississippi<div>Today here in Northern Mississippi is what spring is all about. The weather is as close to perfect as it can get. The sun in shining brightly in a clear blue sky. The temperature is mild. It's been a good day to spend some time out working on the garden. I keep finding myself just staring off into space though, not thinking about much of anything most of the time, just enjoying the day.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Spring here is bringing lots of color. The dogwoods are blooming as are several other trees (If I knew what they WERE I'd name then lol). There are also Tulips around and other bulbs that have flowers this time of year. Things are turning green again. </div><br /><div></div><br /><div>I'm not sure if it's related to spring or not but Tux, one of the outside cats that sort of came with this house and who I've written about here before, has once again had kittens. It looks like five this time. </div><br /><div></div><br /><div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319841435343374642" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SdPfmYcLyTI/AAAAAAAAAC8/AqMdAgczN3Q/s400/IMG_3619.JPG" border="0" /></div><br /><p>In the past she always had them under our airconditioner/heater unit. This time she seems to want to keep them tucked up in the corner of the house near the basement. I wish she'd take them somewhere more sheltered but I'm afraid to interfere because I'm afraid she will abandon them if I do. She is, and always has been, very skittish. Even after a year and a half she won't even think about letting me pet her. Sometimes she even hisses at me when I feed her. I'm such a sucker I do it anyway.</p>Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-38127665908780028992009-03-30T07:33:00.002-05:002009-03-30T07:48:11.894-05:00ReconnectingReconnecting is a good title for this entry for a lot of reasons, not the least of which is that I see that the last entry I posted here was over 2 months ago. It was a busy two months with very little of it spent online.<br /><br />I appear to be changing my online habits back again. Mostly that is thanks to Facebook. I'd had an account there for a while but had never actually used it. For a while it didn't have any profile information or anything. I can't even say what made me think to log on to it and finally add my info.<br /><br />I'm glad I did though because as soon as I filled out a profile I began to have what I thought were long lost friends finding me there. I've had a lot of high school classmates and friends from where I grew up contact me. Some I remember very well indeed and some I really don't. I've also had at least one friend I made online who I thought I'd totally lost contact with, contact me there.<br /><br />Connie and I went to Orlando last week to do some work on the house. One guy who I'd known well because he lived in my neighborhood had told me to let him know the next time I'd be in Orlando.<br /><br />Well I did and a week ago yesterday we got together for the first time in 32 years. Connie and I met him and is wife at one of our (and theirs too it turns out) favorite local pizza places. We all got along great and it was like the 32 years didn't matter. I'd wondered if it would be awkward. Would we be too different now. The last time I saw him was when he went away to college (he was a year ahead of me) so it had been almost twice as long since I'd seen him as we were OLD last time we saw one another. Didn't matter. It felt perfectly comfortable and we just sort of seemed to pick right up. Of course there was a lot to catch up on but that was fun. It was also fun talking about some of the memories. All in all it was an awesome experience. But did I get a picture of the two of us together? LOL nope, forgot all about it until way too late. Maybe next time since I'm sure there will BE a next time...and not in 32 years!<br /><br />I have also been contacted on Facebook by an old friend who I thought I met in 5th grade but she says it was 1st. I'm sure she's right but my elementary school memories pretty much start in 5th grade. The earlier ones were not my happiest. We were in school together from then on but after high school she went off to college, got married and moved all around and until now I never had any contact with her. It's been great to reconnect.<br /><br />All in all I'm loving this reconnecting...now maybe I can stay connected here and write my next entry here sooner than two months from now.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-61435389023005565382009-01-20T08:03:00.002-06:002009-01-20T08:21:08.712-06:00Moved in and settlingThis one will be quick as I've got a lot I need to do today. The POD is unloaded and gone. All the furniture is in place. Whether it's in it's final resting place only time will tell but most of it probably is. We didn't really over stuff this house with 'stuff' too bad but we did have enough that there are not a whole lot of sensible ways to arrange the furniture. About half of the stuff that Connie wants hung on the walls is up now. All the boxes except about eight with some of my stuff are unpacked. Mostly I have too much 'stuff' I know roughly what is in those boxes that have not been unpacked and most of it I either really don't need or don't need except in special circumstances. No doubt I'll keep most if not all of it anyway....sigh...I said I wasn't going to do that and to a big extent I haven't really. We threw a LOT out rather than move it and then threw a bit more out AFTER we moved it. LOL I know that's not the right way to do it but at least we got rid of some more clutter. Hopefully is is the LAST move. I know some people, military families in particular, move a lot and we've moved our fair share of times but I'm tired of it. I want this to be IT.<br /><br />On another front poker shows signs of picking back up. It was just horrible from before Thanksgiving through Christmas. Not so much that it was going badly for me, more that it wasn't going period. There were simply few if any games and they were just not worth playing. I love to play but I'm not going to play in a game that I know I can't make enough to at least best the rake and come out even. I'm not looking to get rich but I'm not going to go to the casino just to feed the casino which is what those games were amounting to since it was difficult if not impossible to make any money in them.<br /><br />This past weekend Connie and I both went and found games to our liking. She in the smallest they had, a 3/6 and me in a slighly larger 4/8 game. I was getting mediocre cards at best but the table was pretty good so I stuck it out even through a period of having to play extremely short handed. Normally I will not play 5 handed 4/8 because the blinds come so fast that it's too highly variable. I'm glad I stuck it out because I came out of a shortish three hour session with a nice profit. In her smaller game Connie out earned me by tripling my meager profit. She had one of those rare session where the deck just hits you over the head and the other players just refuse to believe you have a good hand. Makes it very easy to make money when that happens. I'm tickled because when she does well she is willing to go back again. A bad session would have her sulking for a month :) (she reads this so I'm probably going to pay for that but it's TRUE!). Now that things are settling down I should be playing more. The WSOP tournament circuit is in town, starting today at Harrah's (formerly The Grand). That should mean that there will be more and softer games available for the choosing for the next couple of weeks. I hope so.<br /><br />Time to get back to work now...well it's got to be done.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-46392483296311482932009-01-05T15:04:00.002-06:002009-01-05T15:16:40.782-06:00The Road Less TraveledThere is no telling how many entries I've used the above title for but I'm willing to bet it's a few over the years. It seems that on my journey through life I've spent a good bit of it on, as Robert Frost put it "The road less traveled by." That has long been my favorite poem. It came up today in my email when I got it as one of two daily quotes. The actual quote is:<br /><br /><em>Two roads diverged in a wood and I –I took the one less traveled by,And that has made all the difference.--</em> Robert Frost <br /><br />It's a great poem and describes my life very well I feel. If you've never read it look it up on Google and take a look.<br /><br />The other quote in today's email was:<br /><br /><em>As you go the way of life you will see a great chasm. Jump. It is not as wide as you think.--</em> Native American Proverb <br /><br />Both of these are very fitting as today is pretty much the start of a journey down a new road in my life. I guess I've dabbled with this path for a while now but today it seems like I'm really firmly and surely on this new road.<br /><br />There aren't too many people, or too many couples who would pick up and move OUT of Florida for their retirement years. True we're not really retired yet, not nearly, but we also don't plan to go back. That's why I feel that both those quotes fit my situation so well.<br /><br />Today was Connie's first official day working from here in Mississippi. All our stuff is either here or in transit to here. I can now say that I'm living in Mississippi. I thought about it a bit last night and it was actually a bit scary in some ways but it's too late now, this is the road I'm on for better or worse now. I think it's going to work out just fine really. Mostly anything scary about it was the fact that I sometimes have trouble eliminating options or burning bridges and really don't like change all that much. Well the option of living here or there is now gone, the bridge pretty much toast, the change is done. Now all there is to do is move on and enjoy this new road less traveled.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-4225571889756017012008-12-29T14:21:00.004-06:002008-12-29T14:39:47.444-06:00Moving on up<div><br /><br /></div><div>Up to Mississippi that is. As soon as Christmas passed the packing began in earnest. The POD was delivered right on time the day after Christmas and we started loading up. It's gone very well so far and now we're down to just having to pack up the kitchen cabinets and one bathroom. </div><div><br /></div><div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5285310685350748018" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SVkyEMfoX3I/AAAAAAAAACk/YFpBGnyboxI/s320/IMG_3586.JPG" border="0" />Here's the POD on the drivway in front of the house. It was really cool watching them deliver it. I had visions of them having to tilt it to get it off the truck onto the ground and didn't see how I was going to keep the furniture from sliding around. The way they do it is really cool but hard to explain. The truck carries a sort of skeleton vehicle that sort of surrounds the pod and supports is at four points from below so that it goes up and down nice and evenly. It looks to be adjustable every which way, somebody did some real creative thinking with that one.</div><div><br /></div><div></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5285311736176771794" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SVkzBXIFAtI/AAAAAAAAACs/PXI4FTCwDAE/s320/IMG_3585.JPG" border="0" />Here is the partially loaded POD sometime early yesterday I think, maybe the day before. It's all kind of mushed together. It is MUCH fuller now. I thought we would not be filling it but we will be getting it quite full. It's a very good thing that I took as much as I did one pick-up truck load at a time for the last year and a half when I went to visit. If I'd taken any less stuff we'd have had a problem.<br /><br />The packing should be finished by tomorrow night and Wednesday they will come pick the POD up. We leave here on Saturday and will drive straight through. Connie and Caylith (the cat) will be in the toyota and I'll take the pick up. She is not looking forward to driving for 14 hours but she'll do fine. It's a one shot deal for her. I've done it on average every 4 -6 weeks for a year and a half or more.<br /><br />We need to be up there on Sunday because... hold onto your hats... <br /><br /><span style="color:#99ffff;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#66ffff;">THE DOLPHINS MADE THE PLAYOFFS!!!!!</span></strong></span><span style="color:#99ffff;"><strong><br /></strong></span><br /><span style="color:#99ffff;"><span style="color:#000000;">That was supposed to be the dolphin's teal green :) I can't believe that they went from 1 and 15 last year to 11-5 and in the playoffs this year! I can wear my dolphins stuff out in public now and not face (deserved) ridicule. I may be moving out of Florida but I will remain a Dolphins Fan!</span></span><br /><span style="color:#99ffff;"><span style="color:#000000;"></span></span><br /><span style="color:#99ffff;"><span style="color:#000000;">I'll also be glad to get to a place that isn't HOT all the time. We had record heat for Christmas. It was like 83 or so here. That is just WRONG! I don't expect a white Christmas but is it too much to ask to be able to wear long pants and a long sleeved shirt? No problem with that in Northern Mississippi that time of year!</span></span><br /><span style="color:#99ffff;"><span style="color:#000000;"></span></span><br /><span style="color:#99ffff;"><span style="color:#000000;">Ok time to get back to work... I hope everybody had a wonderful Christmas...take care ya'll.</span><br /></span><span style="color:#99ffff;"></span>Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-45754082166353664742008-12-20T04:02:00.006-06:002008-12-20T04:15:16.661-06:00Completed Projects<div><div>A while back I posted some pictures of a couple of projects that I started, intending them to be Christmas gifts. Well I actually finished them! I thought I'd post a picture or two as proof and to let you see how things turned out. I'm not posting pictures of all the ornaments, the one I'm including is representative. </div><br /><br /><br /><div></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5281812286904754946" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SUzESmtAYwI/AAAAAAAAACM/uQxYNdWbk4U/s320/IMG_3584.JPG" border="0" /><br /><div>I'll probably do more of them during the year to prepare for next Christmas because they were a lot of fun. The bookhouse I will probably not do another of until Connie starts teaching, she has already told me she wants one or more for her classroom. The bookhouse turned out pretty good but it was a LOT bigger than I thought it would be, why I don't know. It did have to be big enough to hold books after all. </div><div></div><div></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5281812991273297938" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SUzE7mrjaBI/AAAAAAAAACc/ITj1hTRedJ8/s320/IMG_3506.JPG" border="0" /><br /><div>I don't even want to THINK about how much it cost to ship to Pennsylvania to my sister in law. I guess I need to remember to think SMALL for the things that need to be shipped. </div></div>Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-77839256611407632132008-12-06T07:50:00.003-06:002008-12-06T08:15:51.711-06:00Plodding AlongIt's been a while since I posted an entry. In part I've been busy. In part I did not have anything that I deemed remotely interesting to write about. I've been reading journals and, as usual, not commenting. When I do that it's usually because I didn't feel I had anything to add to what had already been said. That is also a part of why I have not written. I didn't feel I had much, if anything of much value to add to anything going on in this community or any other.<br /><br />Did anybody really want to read about the state of poker and casinos in general? Probably not anybody I haven't emailed and gripped about it to. Does anybody really care how many boxes I've packed in preparing to 'officially' move to MS in a month? Only Connie and she knows, she has to walk around them. I didn't have the energy or motivation to try to write a worthy Thanksgiving entry. It was actually a good Thanksgiving as holidays go but nothing astounding to share it seems to me, not compared to what I read anyway.<br /><br />On the other hand I do like to write and it's time to do so. I look back on these journals from time to time to see what was happening so in part, in large part really, I'm writing for myself. Maybe we all are, or maybe it's just me.<br /><br />I've got this feeling like I'm living in an almost schizophrenic world. If I don't watch too much news and look only around my immediate little world then my journey through life seems to be going very well. I'm pretty happy. Connie is pretty happy. Lee is doing pretty well. All well and good.<br /><br />Unfortunately there is this kind of feeling as I walk along the path of life's journey that I'm walking on what has become an increasingly narrow ledge. There are no saftey rails, most of them have rusted and fallen away thanks to things totally beyond my control. It's a long way down and I am not comfortable with heights. Couple that with the fact that on the other side of the narrow path is a huge cliff with boulders poised to fall at any minute and either sweep away any remaining feeling of safety or possibly sweep me into the abyss. Sounds like a dark and forbidding picture huh? Actually it's very much a mixed picture in my mind. I can also see bright blue skys and lush green pastures that await if I can dodge the obstacles in front of me. In a sense that is always the way it is on any journey but in this case I feel like there is little I can do to control the outcome of the journey right now. It's that lack of control (and I am NOT a control freak by any stretch of the imagination I don't think...am I?) that has me feeling sort of antsy. We've planned, we've worked, we've done all the right things and yet it could be all for naught...or it could be wonderful...and there is not a thing we can do now but wait and see what happens. That is a tough situation. I know I share it with many, if not most, people right now although most would think my way of looking it it a bit weird.<br /><br />But having written that do you now see why I have not written? Talking about it does NOT help. What helps is staying very busy doing things that I can see producing tangible if not vitally important results, building things, creating, cleaning, improving things in my immediate life while trying not to take too much time looking at a big picture that is increasingly bleak and which is increasingly nothing that any amount of planning or work on my part can do anything about.<br /><br />I'll be back in less time this time...maybe writing about some of the small things that are making me feel good will not only help me but help somebody else. They don't matter in the overall scheme of things but they make me happy and more and more it seems to be important to take any happiness where you can find it and be grateful while trying to avoid thing things that you cannot change that make you unhappy. I know it's a philosophy sure to be condemned by many in this community and the world in general. Sometimes its a good thing to have a small audience, fewer people to tell me I'm nuts (dont' waste your breath...I'm know I'm nuts....I like it that way). <div> </div><div>And that's the way it is.... </div><div> </div><div>Look around you...find one thing that can make you smile and then....SMILE...and have a great day ya'll!</div><div> </div>Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-36615691662002022822008-11-02T20:40:00.002-06:002008-11-02T20:55:10.248-06:00Cruisin' on home...I'm tired so this will be short but I'm feeling a wee bit of withdrawal having not been able to even think about writing here for over a week now.<br /><br />We're back from our cruise. It was great as they usually are. It was our fifth trip on the Carnival Glory and probably our last since a year from December they will be pulling the Glory out of Port Canaveral and replacing her with a new ship, the Dream. Of course we won't be living in Orlando and Mobile and New Orleans will both be closer as ports to cruise out of but who knows when and where the next cruise will be. I'm ready to go again now but that's just me. Too bad they aren't free LOL.<br /><br />We even got an extra half day tacked onto this cruise. On Thursday a crewmember on the ship, a 23 year old woman, developed appendicitis and we had to divert and head toward Puerto Rico to get within range of a US Coast Guard helicopter to medi-evac her off the ship. We cruised for 5 or 6 hours in pretty much the wrong direction... straight south instead of the Northwest heading we'd been on. The helicopter got to the ship around 7:00 pm I guess, in full dark. It was interesting to watch and the Coast Guard did a great job. Oddly this is the second cruise we've been on where somebody had to be evacuated by helicopter. The other time we were not diverted though since we were already within range of a coast guard station I suppose.<br /><br />All told we got into Port Canaveral about 10 hours late. Usually we count on having all day Saturday to do stuff after getting off a cruise but we didn't even get home until 8PM. Normally that would not matter but we were having a bunch of people over for poker on Sunday so it put a crimp in our prep time.<br /><br />We got everything done though and had 13 people here tonight. First we watched a poker show on FSN called ClubWPT.com. A friend of ours had won a seat to play on TV six handed for a winner take all prize of $5000. Tonight was the airing of his show. It was fun to watch as this was the first time he'd seen it too so he got to see the hole cards of the other players for the first time. It was even better because it turned out he WON!!! He managed not to tell anyone but we'd kinda guessed that he might have.<br /><br />We played two mini-tournaments after the show was over and everybody ate too much considering that EVERYBODY brought plenty of food. It worked out well even though we've moved a lot of our furniture to Mississippi already. Instead of telling people "bring your own bottle" we told them "Bring your own chair". How many times do you hear that? LOL<br /><br />Anyway we're done and everybody is home and I'm beat. We were supposed to leave for Mississippi tomorrow but I didnt' get the truck packed so it's looking like we'll be leaving Tuesday...and yes...we've already voted.<br /><br />I'll be writing again in a day or two probably, who knows from which 'home'. I'll get caught up on everyone's blogs as soon as possible but it will probably take me until the middle of the week or maybe even next weekend. I'm looking forward to seeing what everyone has been up to.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-31176590518950801652008-10-22T16:18:00.002-05:002008-10-22T16:27:29.343-05:00Remember the Ice Cream Truck?Do you remember as a kid how you loved to hear the Ice Cream Truck driving through your neighborhood? I know I did. It would bring kids tearing out of their houses to try to catch up with it.<br /><br />I'd thought it was a thing of the past actually, gone the way of the Milk Man, the Charles Chips Man and Drive In movies. It's not gone though. It's driving through my neighborhood.<br /><br />At first it gave me a nice nostalgic flashback. Then, after it had been parked in front of my house for a bit the nice nostalgic feeling gave way to irritation. The old curmudgeon in me started to come out.<br /><br />I suppose that it always played really badly recorded music realy loudly. I mean that is how we knew it was coming. But after listening to it for a good ten minutes (I guess the kids could not make up their minds) I know wonder if maybe our parents didn't look at it with quite the enthusiasm that us kids did. Possibly they even had thoughts of ripping the speaker off the side of the thing and stomping on it. I would no longer blame them :)<br /><br />Just goes to show you how your perceptions can change over time. I was tempted to go out and see about buying something but I have a feeling the prices would shock me. I can't actually remember how much we used to pay for things but I know I always just needed some change, no paper money. These days you probably need a credit card to afford it.<br /><br />The neighborhood kids still looked just as happy to see it as I remember being though. I never got to see my kid react to hearing it. At 21 now he'd be more likely to want to shut off the loud and truly horrible music than to get an ice cream...but maybe not.<br /><br />Even the the old curmudgeon can step aside long enough to smile at the nostalgic thoughts of times gone by. Oh...and it moved on so it's quiet again which helps too :)Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-20551531656409546492008-10-20T08:02:00.002-05:002008-10-20T08:25:25.142-05:00A change then a vacationFirst the change. I'm back in Orlando for a week. We left around 1 pm on Friday when Connie finished work for the day and started driving. She really wanted to get to Orlando in time for a home poker game some friends were having on Saturday night. She likes poker but not enough to want to drive that long all at once. She likes the people too and I suspect the chance to get together with them for what is rapidly turning into a diminishing number of opportunities was the key for her. Whatever the reason we ended up driving straight through and got home just before 4 am on Saturday morning.<br /><br />I know it sounds insane but I'm coming to like to drive this way. Being on the road all night is not that bad. I seem to have no trouble staying awake as long as I have a goal in sight. Also if need be I can cat nap at a rest stop. The traffic is non-existent and driving is very easy. She pointed out to me that a lot of why we seem to like it is that it no longer feels like we are wasting a day driving. We use the same amount of TIME of course but we got plenty done on both Friday and Saturday and STILL drove from Hernando to Orlando. Normally we'd have used up all of our waking ours on Saturday sitting in the truck.<br /><br />She got right around six hours sleep on Saturday and I managed about four but felt pretty good. We did get to our friend's house and played both of the tournaments that night. They're just little $10 buy in things between friends. No big stakes involved here. The people are fun though and the poker is not bad. I feel a little awkward playing these tournaments because I cash well over 50% of the time. This past Saturday I won the first tournament and was second in the second one. I guess if it really bothered people how often I take home the money they'd stop inviting me. It may help that I'm not in Orlando that much anymore so it probably doesn't feel to them like I win that much. This is kinda too funny....a poker player with a conscience. I love to win and I play to win...always even against friends. The thing is they ARE friends and I guess I do worry I will piss them off. Not much I can do. I just have never been able to throw a game of any sort. If you play with me and beat me then you know you beat the best I could give it.<br /><br />Now that the weekend is over I'll spend the week working on the flooring I'm installing as an ongoing project and also doing a few odds and ends toward moving in January. There are things I can pack up now because I know I can do without them for the next three months. I'll probably take the truck back to Hernando when I go in around two weeks and take a load of stuff even though I realy don't need to. It's going to be too cold up there to enjoy the Miata with the top down anyway so I might as well take the truck and a load of 'stuff' with me.<br /><br />Before I go back though we've got a long anticipated vacation coming. Around nine months ago we booked a cruise and have been asking ourselves "is it time yet?" ever since. Well it's almost time. We leave Saturday for a week cruising around the Carribean. I'm really looking forward to it. It's the most relaxing form of vacation I've ever found. I just enjoy the sun and fresh air and sit around reading and people watching. If I take a vacation on land I usualy end up planning some way to play some poker on it, or theme the whole thing toward poker. This cruise will be poker free. They do HAVE poker available but it's one of the horrible PokerPro tables. It's like playing online, you play against live players sitting around a table with a computer screen in front of them. Horrible idea. If I'm going to play on a computer I want to do it in my living room with a tee shirt and gym shorts on and my feet propped up. I won't have any trouble not playing.<br /><br />Now it's time for me to get to work. Lots to do here before I go on the cruise. I'll probably write another entry before then but probably will not write from the cruise. I'm taking my laptop so I can write but plan to have very close to zero time spent online as well. We're not even planning to buy one of the plans where you get cheap (well cheaper) minutes on the ship. I'll probably check email a few times so if somebody writes I'll write back but I'm not going to be online long enough to write journal entries.<br /><br />I'm amazed at how much I have been writing here. Especially after not having written for so long on AOL and being sure when I moved here that I wouldn't be changing that here. Oh well I do enjoy writing so it's working out. So is our new home here I think. I'm really liking it here. I was always sort of on the fringe of J-Land on AOL, sort of like the guy at a party who hangs around watching but not really being part of the party. That won't change a whole lot here but maybe it will change a little...just maybe.<br /><br />Ok NOW I'm going back to work...I really am...maybe :)Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-3382523795079338382008-10-15T08:44:00.002-05:002008-10-15T08:56:04.911-05:00Tricks memory plays on youYesterday I finally started on something I've mean to do for quite a while. I've seen in a couple of different places, mostly writing prompts I think, how you should keep a timeline of your life, sort of a life resume. Not just of jobs held but of important events in your life.<br /><br />I thought I remember it all fairly well but as I began to try to compile the document I found myself remembering a surprising number of things only dimly and getting things in the wrong chronological order. I also found out that I am horrible with dates.<br /><br />I discovered another oddity for things farther back in my past, and I'm really just talking since I've been married. Jobs I held back then that had seemed like I'd been there a long time in reality turned out to be only a couple of years. One house we lived in which I'd been sure we'd lived in for a very long time was also only about two years.<br /><br />A more recent house that we DID live in for 10 years seemed no longer than the one back in the distant past, and remember I've been married 31 years so the distant past is pretty distant.<br /><br />All in all it's been an eye opening experience creating this life timeline or whatever you choose to call it. I'm glad I'm working on it and have a feeling that I'll be VERY glad in another 20 years. I know I've still got things to add and dates to refine. Some things will be hard to document because they were before I began to journal in any form. That is another thing that will be nice in 20 years or so. Journals like this one and the private ones I have kept over the years either in actual paper journals written long hand or on my computer will be invaluable to look back on somewhere down the road.<br /><br />Mostly right now I'm musing over the oddity of how compressed time seems the farther back I go in my memory. I wonder if it's just me or if it's a common thing.Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4173802881659148207.post-33671190751668618162008-10-12T17:20:00.005-05:002008-10-12T17:33:23.950-05:00Christmas OrnamentsI've made a decent little start on my Christmas ornaments that we plan to give away as gifts this year. So far three of them are cut out. None of them are finished, not even final sanding but I'm going to post pictures here now because I'm impatient and because I don't have anything else much to write about right now.<br /><br /><br /><p><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5256396857898979922" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SPJ5F7mMUlI/AAAAAAAAAB0/1EhDfH0crtY/s400/IMG_3456.JPG" border="0" /><br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SPJ5g92jTqI/AAAAAAAAAB8/j8p0xBmcLV0/s1600-h/IMG_3454.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5256397322360934050" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SPJ5g92jTqI/AAAAAAAAAB8/j8p0xBmcLV0/s400/IMG_3454.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SPJ5zn6VCNI/AAAAAAAAACE/lD4qQFIYc04/s1600-h/IMG_3463.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5256397642888710354" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8CRDYDa9YjM/SPJ5zn6VCNI/AAAAAAAAACE/lD4qQFIYc04/s400/IMG_3463.JPG" border="0" /></a><br />There are several more to come over the next few days. I have less then a week left here right now but I will be back in a couple of weeks and I can finish up then. I hope. They are being lots of fun to make but it'd be cheaper to buy them. But it's the thought that counts and I've always thought a handmade gift was pretty cool because you knew some thought went into it.<br /></p>Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16910410304850501524noreply@blogger.com2